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The 7 Best Tips for Using a Prostate Massager

When it comes to anal sex, many men are resistant or even feel shame. Why does this happen? Maybe this sense of shame mainly stems from ignorance.We respect everyone’s choice of anal sex, but we hope you treat it with the right attitude. To dispel men’s misconceptions about this sexual activity and to help men obtain other methods of orgasm besides penile orgasm, today we are going to talk about what a prostate orgasm is and how to use a prostate massager to obtain one.

What Is the Prostate?

The prostate is a small, hickory-like gland that is a part of the reproductive system. It is located in front of the rectum and below the bladder, where it secretes the fluid used for semen. Many penis owners have found that stimulating this tiny spot can result in a more intense experience than a penile orgasm, although the science has not officially recognized it.

use animation showing Where  the Prostate is

Since the prostate is near the rectum, you can massage the P-spot by stimulating the rectum.It is difficult for fingers to provide enough stimulation, even though they can be flexed around the rectum. Therefore, you need a specific device to hit the prostate, and that is a prostate massager.

What Is a Prostate Massager?

Prostate massagers are sex toys designed for penis owners. They are available in different sizes, materials, and designs. They can reach the area where fingers can’t, giving the gland constant electric stimulation.
Since p-spot toys need to penetrate the rectum deep, they usually have a long and thin design with a pointed tip for targeting the prostate.

use animation showing how the prostate massager works

In addition, prostate massagers have an ergonomic curvature that allows for a better fit on the rectal wall.Although the P-spot has not been officially recognized so far, every man knows that stimulating this area can be a great source of pleasure. This area doesn’t need science, it just needs a prostate massager.

7 Tips for Using a Prostate Massager

A p spotmassager is different from an anal plug in that the latter only needs to stay at the opening of the anus, while the formal one must go deep into the rectum and pinpoint the prostate. So, it requires the users to master certain angles and some skills for better stimulation. If this is your first time trying a prostate toy, here are some tips to help you.

Tip 1: Prepare and Relax

Before starting anal play, please ensure you have prepared all the required items, which can help avoid hurry-scurry. If necessary, clean the perianal region, and it can make your experience a lot better. Apart from the physical preparation, the mental is also essential. Listening to soft music or a hot bath is a good way to help you get into the mood.

Tip 2: Warm up the Anus

Stimulating the prostate requires passage through the anus and rectum, so you need to dilate the anus first. Use your fingers or a butt plug to expand until your anus gets used to it slowly. If you insert the massager without dilation, you may feel pain.

Tip 3: Be Generous with The Lube

Never forget that the anus doesn’t produce fluid, so you need to lubricate the anus to get a friction-free anal play. Choosing lubricants is not random, and you need to make sure whether it is compatible with your massager.

Water-based lubricant is a good choice because it can be used with most sex toys. The only shortcoming of it is that it dries out easily, so you should apply it generously and continually.

apply lube before using prostate massager

Tip 4 Insert It Slowly

Place the toy so the p spot massager’s curved surface faces your stomach, then slowly insert the prostate massager. At the beginning, you can insert the tip of the vibrator with one inch and stay for a while. Observe your body and wait for it to accommodate the toy. If you feel great, pull the remaining part into your body.

Turn on Your Prostate Massager

Unlike vaginal stimulation, you don’t need to move the prostate massager forth and back. Just keep the front of the prostate massager into your rectum. The purpose of doing this is to keep pressure on the prostate.Pay attention to your body changes during insertion and stop immediately if you feel pain.

Tip 5 Turn on Your Prostate Massager

For those who have not tried prostate orgasm yet, vigorously stimulating the P-spot from the beginning is unwise. The anus is likely to become tighter due to solid stimulation, making it difficult to push forward.
Therefore, stimulate the P-spot at a low frequency first at the beginning, then adjust the intensity according to your adaptability.

 adjust  the thrusting mode of prostate via remote control

Tip 6: Give it Some Time

Prostate orgasm is not a sprint but a marathon. You need to massage this gland with a prostate massager patiently. The orgasm might not happen right away, but you’ll get a lot of unexpected pleasure from exploring your prostate.

Tip 7 Wash it Well

Cleaning the prostate massager is also an important part. Clean the massager with warm water and antibacterial soap before and after each use. If you want to save time, put a condom on the massager. This not only keeps your toys clean, but also protects your health.

clean your prostate massager by cleaner after used

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Saul Glans 3 prostate toy

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Benefits of Using a P-spot Massager?

The safety and effectiveness of using prostate massagers for medical purposes have not been fully explored, but this activity still has some benefits.

More Powerful Erections

When massaging the prostate, the blood flow will increase. And healthy blood flow is the main reason for erections. Therefore, massaging the prostate can help treat erectile dysfunction.

More Explosive Orgasms

The posterior surface of the prostate has an abundance of sensory nerve endings. By stimulating this area, you can have a longer-lasting, deeper orgasm than with the penis.

Useful in Treating Prostatitis

Most men will experience prostate problems as they reach middle age, and an enlarged prostate is one of the most common problems. According to limited research, regular p-spot massage along with medication can help reduce symptoms. Still, some people are skeptical about the potential health benefits of prostate massage.

Also Watch

Dr. Rena Malik, a urologist and pelvic surgeon, reveals common myths about prostate massage in a YouTube video.

Who is Dr. Rena Malik
Dr. Rena Malik is a urologist and pelvic surgeon who has expertise in the diagnosis and treatment of conditions related to the urinary tract and male and female reproductive systems.

Is It Possible to Have Prostate Orgasms Every Time?

Not everyone can have a prostate orgasm when they use a prostate massager for the first time, and not every time will you achieve a orgasm by using a thrusting butt plug or vibrating butt plug. But if you’re patient enough, your body will get used to it and even crave P-spot stimulation.

Final Thoughts

If this article has whetted your appetite for prostate exploration, make your hay while the sun shines. Buy yourself a prostate massager, slather on some lube, and start enjoying your prostate orgasms.
Although prostate orgasm does not happen every time, you will get more pleasure while looking for it, and pleasure is the most important thing in sexual activity.

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