How to Simulate a Blowjob – Tips | Guide | Sex Toy

When it comes to self-pleasure, most guys see themselves as seasoned pros. Back in the day, their hands knew all the right moves. But when it comes to the realm of blow jobs, not every guy has had that luck. Some might be flying solo, while others might have a partner steering clear of oral activities.

But hey, let’s not let that stop us from chasing pleasure! In this guide, I’m here to toss around some ideas on how to mimic the delights of oral sex. Get ready for a solo adventure with some of the best artificial oral stimulation tips.

What Is a Blowjob?

To be straightforward, oral sex isn’t limited to men. Whether you’ve got a penis or a vulva, any intimate interaction involving the mouth and genitalia falls under the umbrella of oral sex, and it’s recognized as one of the top ways to reach climax. When the focus is on stimulating a penis, it’s commonly known as a “blow job.”

Typically occurring during foreplay, as a lead-up to vaginal or anal penetration, blowjobs and other oral activities take center stage. However, when it comes to DIY BJ simulation, since there’s no partner involved, you get to direct all your attention to giving your own penis a pleasurable experience.

Blowjob Simulation Must-Haves

Before diving into the realm of blowjob simulators, it’s vital to grasp what makes oral sex enjoyable. Understanding the key elements that deliver pleasure is crucial before attempting to recreate that delightful sensation. Here’s a rundown of essential components for the ultimate DIY blow job experience:

• Suction: A blowjob without a sense of suction is like wearing loose-fitting underwear—uncomfortable and awkward.
• Moisture: Remember, the oral cavity is moist. Maintaining a wet environment is key to an authentic experience.
• Warmth: If warmth isn’t felt, it won’t feel genuine. Simulating the sensation of warmth is crucial for a realistic experience.
• Texture: The mouth and throat aren’t smooth; they have textures. So, don’t overlook texture when engaging in DIY BJ simulation.
• Pressure: The best blowjobs involve a bit of manual action and squeezing pressure.
• No Hands: While blowjob is a hands-free way to reach climax, achieving it without hands during solo play can be challenging.

How to simulate a blow job?

There’s nothing that can truly replicate the sensation provided by the mouth, so whatever method you use to simulate blowjob, achieving an absolutely authentic feel is nearly impossible.

However, if you don’t have a partner, and self-performing oral sex is nearly impossible for most people (unless you’re a contortionist), using certain tools to simulate blow job seems to be the best choice.
Achieving a realistic and safe simulation of oral sex can be done through the following methods:

#1: Recreate a Blowjob with Your Hands

Compared to masturbation, simulating blow job with your hands is a much more complex process.
Firstly, you need to apply plenty of lubricant to both your hands and penis to create a smooth surface. Preheating the lubricant by placing it in warm water can enhance the realism of the experience.
Unlike masturbation, which typically involves a single hand, simulating BJ requires the involvement of both hands.

Position one hand above the penis to massage the head, while the other hand grips the shaft, moving up and down. While this method may not fulfill all the criteria for a perfect replication of blowjob, it can be your best option when no other alternatives are available. Experiment with different techniques, varying the speed and pressure, twisting, and creating suction between both hands.

If this method doesn’t meet your needs, let’s explore other options.

#2: How to Simulate a BJ Using Masturbation Pads

Masturbation pads, like the Jack Its Stroker Pad, provide a soft and squishy surface for a more textured experience.

Priced under $10, these pads feature a smooth side and ridges side, creating texture and suction. Soak them in warm water along with lube for a warm, squishy, stimulating sensation that mimics a blowjob more effectively than hands alone.

#3: Try Blowjob Simulation with a Pocket Pussy

Another way to try a blowjob simulation is by using a pocket pussy. The pocket pussy is an old-school sex toy for the penis and was around long before the Fleshlight was invented. Fortunately, old fashion pocket pussies are relatively inexpensive and are great for blowjob simulation.

That is because they are built to create suction; they are textured inside, and you can apply as much pressure as necessary to get you off.

The Fefe Pocket Pussy is a textured, mouth stroker that feels like real skin, and creates super suction. It has two orifices that allow you to experience the dual sensations of the vagina and anus at the same time. This clear, super-suction stroker is sleek and open-ended for easy cleaning.

#4: How to Mimic a Blowjob Using a Fleshlight

Fleshlight is not just a brand of adult products; it’s synonymous with this category of toys. It offers a sensation similar to what a pocket pussy provides, but its durable outer casing ensures excellent protection for the internal sleeve. This feature significantly extends their lifespan.

The Fleshlight Turbo Thrust is designed specifically to mimic a blowjob, with tight dual entry and mind-blowing textures. While Fleshlights may cost more, their durable outer casing extends their lifespan, and you can reuse the case while adding different sleeves at a fraction of the cost.

#5: Simulate a Blowjob Using Automation Toy

The advancement of technology is evident in the thriving development of electric sex toys. Automated masturbators simplify the intricate process, eliminating the need to contemplate the force or angle to stimulate the penis, as everything is pre-set in the device. You simply need to apply lubricant, slide in, power up the toy, grasp, and indulge in the experience.

Simulate a blowjob with the Leten Bermuda Masturbator. This Masturbator with Controller is designed to provide an experience that closely mimics real oral pleasure. It features 10 different pushing and rotating modes, offering a variety of sensations.

The machine stretches and sucks, rotating and thrusting simultaneously, thanks to its alloy track that prevents jamming – a common issue with similar products. With a powerful motor delivering up to 370 cycles per minute, you’re in for an intense and satisfying experience. Remember, using a water-based lube makes everything more enjoyable.

Can I make a homemade blowjob toy on my own?

Wondering if you can craft your own blowjob simulator at home? If the prices of alternatives are too steep or you’re having trouble getting your hands on the real deal, DIY options can be a backup plan. While replicating the nuanced sensations of lips, tongue, and throat might be a challenge, we’ve got some popular methods using everyday materials you probably already have.

Tips for Creating a Homemade blow job simulators

Cooked Meat Magic

To mimic the sensation of a blow job with meat, carve a customizable hole into a cooked ham. Heat it up in the microwave and generously apply lube to the hole. The closed end should create a suction effect, giving you that tight blow job feel.

Homemade Blowjob Machine

Crafting your own pleasure machine is quite a project. It’s challenging, but it comes with risks and complexity, especially when dealing with electrical equipment. Missing a step could lead to injury during use. There are multiple methods to mimic oral sex using common household items: let’s delve into one.
Introducing the traditional Cup and Sponge method:

Take a plastic cup (or repurpose a Pringles can or cut the top off a soda bottle).
Fill a couple of kitchen sponges (soft side in) with warm water and place them inside the cup. Some even add bubble wrap for an extra interesting sensation.
Insert a latex glove among the sponges, flipping the wrist part inside-out over the rim of the cup and fasten it with a rubber band.
Smear the interior of the glove with lubricant, and there you have it, a homemade oral sex simulator in your grasp.

Also Read : How to Make a Pocket Pussy

Things to avoid

No matter what, never insert your penis into a vacuum. Every year, hundreds of people are taken to hospitals all around the world with vacuum cleaners hooked to their penises.

Final Thoughts

Achieving an authentic feel of blowjob may be nearly impossible, but exploring these methods can offer a satisfying alternative when a partner isn’t available or self-performing oral sex is a challenge.

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