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Dame Aer Review

Today, we’re diving into the world of pleasure with a review of the Aer, a suction sex toy by Dame Products.

As an enthusiastic masturbator, I relish the opportunity to try new and improved sex toys. Among the latest advancements, suction (or “air pressure”) technology is a standout. If you’re seeking a clit-focused toy that mimics the sensations of oral sex, this category of clit-suckers is worth exploring.

The Aer is a rechargeable, silicone suction toy from Dame, “your women-powered source for products for pleasure, designed to nourish sexual wellness and deepen connections.” Having tested several air pressure toys, including the Satisfyer Pro 2, the We-Vibe Melt, and the unfortunately named Womanizer Premium, here’s how the Aer stacks up:

Pros of Dame Aer

1. All-Silicone Design

   The Aer is crafted entirely from medical-grade silicone, unlike many other suction toys that feature a silicone head with a plastic handle. This seamless design not only feels luxurious but also makes cleaning a breeze, with no grooves or crevices to trap lube, body fluids, or hair.

2. Lightweight and Maneuverable

 If you crave intense clit stimulation but struggle with heavy toys, the Aer is your answer. Its lightweight design and easy-to-grip handle make it a joy to use. Impressively, I could even go hands-free by tucking it into a snug pair of boxer briefs.

3. Waterproof (Sort of)

   Thanks to its magnetic charger, you won’t risk ruining the charging port even if you squirt like Old Faithful. However, it’s best to avoid submerging it in the bathtub as the mouth of the toy isn’t designed to handle a lot of liquid.

4. Flexible Mouth

The Aer’s mouth can stretch to fit clits of various sizes, accommodating up to 0.5″ x 0.8″. I tested this by inserting a tube of lipstick, which fit snugly. Keep in mind, if you have a larger clit, the fit might be tight.

5. Gentle Suction

For those with a hyper-sensitive clit like mine, the Aer’s gentle suction is perfect. If you prefer a stronger, more intense air pressure, this might not be the toy for you.

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Cons of Dame Aer

1. Tricky to Clean

   While the silicone body is a cinch to clean, the mouth presents a challenge. Most other suction toys have removable mouthpieces, but the Aer’s one-piece design makes it difficult to clean without getting water inside.

2. Limited Settings

   The Aer offers five pulsation patterns and five intensities. While sufficient for my needs, it falls short compared to other suction toys with more varied options.

3. Noise Level

   Like many suction toys, the Aer is quite loud.  If you’re concerned about noise, you might want to consider a quieter vibrator.

Aly VS Dame Aer

If the single-function Aer cannot satisfy your desires, then perhaps you need a multifunctional toy to help you reach orgasm.

Aly is an excellent sex toy with dual stimulation functions, providing both vaginal and clitoral stimulation simultaneously. The suction mouth comfortably attaches to the clitoris, while the vibrating tongue can be inserted into the vagina. Although its design is not as elegant as Aer’s, its performance is amazing. Here’s how the Aly stacks up:


1. Tailored settings

Aly comes with 5 sucking modes and 7 vibration patterns that can be activated at the same time, allowing you to customize your unique experience.

2. Lightweight

Although it is not as small and compact as Aer, it is very lightweight, weighing only 155g. Therefore, you don’t have to worry about wrist fatigue during use. Plus, the slight curve makes it easy to grab during use.

3. Waterproof

Aly has an excellent waterproof rating, so you can use it in the bathtub or shower if you wish. This also makes cleaning it much easier.

4. Soft Silicone Material

Aly is made entirely of soft material, mimicking the feel of a real tongue. Its suction mouth and the tongue at the tail end are pliable, providing a cozy experience.


1. Explicit Appearance

Aly’s design is explicit, so if you want to avoid unnecessary embarrassment, please store it carefully.

2. Angle Adjustment

Although the body of Aly is very flexible, I found that when I wanted to stimulate both the clitoris and the vagina simultaneously, its suction mouth did not always adhere well to my clitoris.


Despite a few drawbacks, I really enjoyed the Aly. The sensations it provides are delightful, and its pros outweigh the cons for me. I plan to keep it in my rotation of favorite toys.

This toy not only delivers pleasure but also represents a thoughtful design that caters to a variety of preferences. Whether you’re a seasoned sex toy enthusiast or a curious newcomer, the Aly is a worthy addition to your collection.

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