Slave Positions in BDSM: A Comprehensive Guide

Slave positions are fundamental poses or stances used in BDSM to establish a power dynamic between the dominant (or top) and the submissive (or bottom). These positions help create a sense of protocol and structure within BDSM relationships, allowing for clear communication and expectations. While the term “slave” is used in this context, it can be interchanged with “submissive” or “bottom” based on personal preference and dynamic within the relationship.

The History of Slave Positions

Slave positions have been a part of kink culture for centuries and are deeply rooted in the history of BDSM. They were popularized by the Gore Books and are commonly used in higher protocol situations and relationships. Many of the positions are inspired by historical ways of showing reverence, such as kneeling or bowing one’s head.

The Purpose of Slave Positions

The primary purpose of these positions is to allow the submissive to be ready and waiting for the dominant, showing respect and readiness for play or punishment. These positions can be used in various ways, including daily life, playtime, and marking the beginning or end of a scene.

How to Implement Slave Positions

Naming and Numbering

You can assign numbers or names to each position, making it easier for the submissive to understand and assume the correct pose. For example, saying “number three” or “stand for inspection” can signal the specific position you expect the submissive to assume.

Teaching and Drilling Positions

Start by teaching one or two positions at a time to avoid overwhelming the submissive. Once they have mastered these, you can have fun by drilling them, making it a sort of “slave workout” while you sit back and enjoy.

Creating Your Own Positions

Feel free to create your own positions or explore various lists available online for more inspiration. The key is to choose positions that work for both the dominant and the submissive, ensuring comfort and effectiveness.

Gender-Neutral Slave Positions

Here are a few gender-neutral slave positions demonstrated by my boyfriend, Sage, to give you a better understanding:

Inspection Pose

• Description: The submissive stands with legs shoulder-width apart and hands up behind their head.
• Purpose: Allows the dominant to inspect the submissive’s body and helps the submissive get into the right mindset.

Relaxed Standing Pose

• Description: The submissive stands with legs relaxed and hands bent behind the back.
• Purpose: A respectful pose to wait for orders.

Bending Poses

• Description: The submissive bends at the waist and grasps either their thighs, knees, or ankles.
• Purpose: Good for punishment and inspection.

Kneeling and Sitting Poses

• Description: The submissive kneels upright with hands behind the head or relaxes back on their heels with hands behind their back.
• Purpose: Respectfully waiting for orders or for the dominant to put on a collar.

Classic All-Fours Pose

• Description: The submissive is on all fours.
• Purpose: Provides access to the entire body for punishment or play.

Begging Position

• Description: The submissive is on their knees with forearms flat on the ground.
• Purpose: A position of vulnerability and submission.

Laying Poses

• Description: The submissive lays on their stomach or back.
• Purpose: Basic poses for various types of play or punishment.

Considerations

It’s essential to consider the submissive’s ability to get into and hold these positions, considering factors like pain issues, bad knees, or a bad back. Be flexible and work together to find positions that are comfortable and effective for both parties.

Conclusion

Slave positions are a vital aspect of BDSM relationships, providing structure, and enhancing the power dynamic between the dominant and the submissive. By understanding and implementing these positions effectively, you can enrich your BDSM experience and strengthen your relationship with your partner.

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