10 Sex Fantasies You Can Use It at Home with Your Partner

There are a million different fantasies exist, and anything safe and consensual is a-okay to explore. If you’re hoping to bring a fantasy, come to life, but tough to know where to start. Below are some tips you might consider looking.

Five Women’s Fantasies

#1: Celebrities

The number one fantasy that I’ve heard from women for over a decade is definitely celebrities. Athletes, actors, actresses, singers, and songwriters are often seen as the top fantasy in women’s sexual desires. If you want to bring this into your bedroom, be open to not being envious or jealous if your partner brings up a celebrity crush. Encourage them if that’s within your comfort zone.

#2: Kidnapping

The next most common fantasy I hear is kidnapping. Being taken, being coerced—while it sounds scary, it’s one of the most frequent fantasies. Someone comes up, takes you, ravishes you, and then there’s no actual harm. You get thrown back into your regular life. This can be scary for some people, but many women find it to be their biggest fantasy. If you’ve heard of someone with this fantasy, comment below to show that it’s quite common.

#3: Power Dynamics

Another prevalent fantasy involves power dynamics. Whether it’s boss and employee, professor and student, doctor and patient, or another power differential, this scenario hits on the third most common fantasy. The excitement comes from the secrecy, time constraints, and the thrill of doing something you’re not supposed to

#4: Romance

The fourth fantasy is romance or making love. Think beautiful music, rose petals on the bed, candlelight, and silk or velvet sheets. While not as common as the other three, many women find this erotic. To try this at home, light candles, dim the lights, and make a playlist. For more ideas and inspiration, check out our sex healer playlists.

#5: Being Known

The fifth most common one is wanting to be known. This involves someone approaching you and giving you pleasure without you having to explain yourself or ask for it. The person would know the right timing, touch, and moment to ravish you. While this is often idolized in movies and seems impossible, it’s about the desire to be understood without having to communicate it.

Five Men’s Fantasies

#1: Threesome

The number one sexual fantasy I hear from men is the threesome. This usually involves two women, but it can also include two men. Regardless of the genders, this is the top fantasy for those assigned male at birth. It’s about the excitement and novelty of having multiple partners at once.

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#2: Cougar or MILF

The second most common fantasy is about cougars or MILFs. These are women who have given birth and are seen as more mature and experienced. This fantasy is all about the allure of a more seasoned lover. If you relate to this fantasy or know someone who does, comment below to show that mothers are desired and wanted.

#3: School Uniform

The third most common one involves school uniforms. Think plaid skirts, knee socks, and pigtails à la Britney Spears. This fantasy is especially popular around Halloween when you see many “school girls” in costumes. It’s a classic fantasy that isn’t going away anytime soon.

#4: Celebrities

The fourth fantasy involves celebrities. This isn’t limited to actresses; it can also include porn stars, athletes, and musicians. Essentially, anyone famous or unattainable can be a fantasy figure. The thrill comes from the idea of being chosen by someone famous, adding an element of excitement and risk.

#5: Power Dynamics

Lastly, power dynamics are a major fantasy for many men. This can involve either being in control or being controlled. The power play adds a layer of excitement and intrigue to sexual encounters.

The Takeaway

Most couples don’t communicate their boundaries openly, so many they don’t know where they stand on the behaviors and fantasies, they feel comfortable experimenting with. Therefore, before you stock up your Amazon cart with whips and chains, have a conversation with your partner first. Err on the side of over-communicating rather than sharing too little. Anyway, don’t hesitate to give them a try!